When it Comes to Divorce Anger .... Cool It!

When I advise divorcing clients, I encourage cordial and reasonable negotiations - otherwise, the uncontested matter can go south very quickly! What I have noticed, however, is that older clients are often more vindictive toward on another than the younger clients who are divorcing.

When children are grown and out of the house, the new empty-nesters often have fewer reasons to stay together. Resentments boil up. Invariably, one party will say, "I want out...I don't care what it costs, but I don't want him (or her) to get anything."

This attitude invariably results in both sides losing financially. It isn't worth it. If you're in this position and considering divorce, protect yourself and your assets. Have a specific plan as it relates to your home, business interests, insurance, alimony and any of your retirement benefits.